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The family’s
wealth is in

their silver. The

festival is held
annually by the

girls on the 15th

day of the third
lunar month.

It is the most

active festival
of the Miao

people, their
Valentine party.

n the town square emotions are bursting with dancing,
singing, and entertainment. Girls dance in a circle
while the boys do the same in the opposite direction.
Silver is everywhere and is considered to ward off evil
Ispirits. Every single girl wears large headdresses, dresses,
bracelets and neck rings. Their nails are dotted with silver
leaving nothing overlooked.
Traditionally, the girls make sticky rice bowls with a secret
item buried in the bottom. The rice is dyed many bright colors
to make it festive. After a young man introduces himself to
his potential soul mate, he would receive a bowl from a basket.
The young women bury an item in each gift which explains her
intentions. There are several possible shocks from a piece of garlic
to a small green leaf. You probably guessed it; you don’t want the
garlic because it means… please don’t call me.
I cherished visiting the minority villages (non-Han) which are
left alone by the Chinese government. They are allowed to follow
their own customs and lifestyles. This is evidenced by a large
number of children a family can have. I traveled by myself with a
local guide and appreciated being the only American I saw. More
China stories to follow. www.RonMcGinty.com

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