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DOCTOR’S CORNER

                     MAN

                 THE SOCIAL ANIMAL

by Allen Weiss, MD, MBA, FACP, FACR                                   smart, unusually attractive, excessively wealthy or a gifted
                                                                      athlete really doesn’t guarantee contentment. Surprisingly and
TPresident and CEO, NCH Healthcare System                             paradoxically, just the opposite seems to be the case, as we all
            he way we live, why we do what we do, and how success     know of examples of dysfunctional individuals and families with
            happens—these are all topics explored at length in the    these “coveted” assets.
            book The Social Animal by David Brooks.
                Hidden qualities such as emotional intelligence that     Good character matters, as does having energy. Both lead
            have been hard to measure lead to real life happiness,    toward persistence. If you do the right thing often enough, you get
            success, and fulfillment, says the author.                the right result. Energetic people have enough fuel to overcome
     Having a normal or slightly above normal intelligence, a         the inevitable setbacks. Those with the confidence to endure,
 reasonable appearance, and some athletic ability may be minimal
 prerequisites or modest facilitators for success. But being super

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