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WINTHNEERS
CIRCLE naples style

I t is well known that Naples is a community that does things, we                                                    by Sandra Lee Buxton
   are aggressive in our work on behalf of others. We volunteer, we
   mentor, we attend fundraisers, we chair events, and we support       mentor stays the course.
endeavors.The list of people who do these things in nearly endless but     Prior to students and mentors being matched a few years
every now and again someone stands out. Louise Penta is certainly
that person, and she recently was named “Mentor of the Year” for        ago Louise just happen to sit at a table with Alex and his family.
the State of Florida by the Take Stock in Children program. To be       During the introductions and getting to know one another Alex’s
considered for this award the mentor is expected to have a long-term,   mother mentioned that her son was diabetic and that solidified the
meaningful commitment to the program and his or her mentee.             relationship. Louise raised a son who is also a diabetic and she knew
The mentor is expected to work on building confidence, provide          that the two were meant to work together. She realized that she could
encouragement, and help their students build on their strengths and     be of assistance to Alex with his scholastic endeavors and also provide
overcome their challenges. Louise was nominated for this prestigious    education about his disease. As an RN and the mother of a diabetic,
honor by the Take Stock staff and her own mentee, Alex Arreguin.        this truly was a match made in heaven. She is given credit by Alex for
                                                                        serving as a mother figure, a mentor, a cheerleader and keeping him
   Passionate in her support of students and the educational            focused on his goals. Recognizing the importance of being educated
opportunity that this program provided she has spent the last five      in all spheres of his life Louise arranged for him to attend a diabetic
years grooming her students (she has two) for success. Mentors          camp in Massachusetts.This camp teaches young men to learn how to
make a commitment to drive to Immokalee weekly to meet with             live with the special challenges of their disease. Alex has attended this
their mentee, which in itself is a labor of love.                       camp four times and found the experience personally enriching and
Naples has mentors which not only go to
Immokalee but look forward to the trip and                                            transformational. The first time he attended camp both
meeting their students. Alex like many other                                                Louise and Alex flew to Boston which was the first
students are wide eyed, full of anticipation                                                  time that he had been on a plane or had ever left
and a week’s worth of stories that they are                                                    the state. To top that off he received a personal
excited to share. Making a difference is what                                                  tour of the Boston area by Louise and learned
the mentors value, that and watching                                                           firsthand about the historical sites that he had
a child evolve into a young adult                                                             only read about. Talk about making history come
prepared psychologically and                                                                        alive, this was a great life lesson itself.
academically to reach excellence.                                                                          As graduation approaches Louise
There is a powerful message                                                                              and her mentee have forged what
that the students receive from                                                                            they consider to be a friendship that
their mentors, and that is “you                                                                           will continue beyond the mentoring
matter.” They matter enough                                                                               process. Alex is grateful to have been
to invest their time, talent and                                                                          mentored by Louise for the support
sometimes resources. They                                                                                 and encouragement that she provided.
matter enough to listen to                                                                                Louise in turn, feels that she is on the
issues close to the mentees heart                                                                         receiving end as well, stating that this
and things that they cannot just                                                                          type of work “gives purpose.” She shares
trust to anyone. They have trust                                                                          that it is rewarding to watch her student
in the one “who cares,” the one                                                                          grow, mature and reach for his dreams.
who listens in a non judgmental                                                                         After graduation Alex plans to attend
way, one who supports them                                                                              college and major in biology. One thing
even when poor choices are made.                                                                        is certain “this is a lifelong relationship”
The student matters enough that the                                                                     built on mutual respect and trust. Louise
                                                                                                        Penta has lived her life with grace and so
                                                                                                        many have benefited. Welcome to the
                                                                                                        Winners Circle Naples Stlye.

                              ALEX ARREGUIN, LOUISE PENTA               Life in Naples | April 2015
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